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A new chapter begins...

Have you ever asked yourself "Is this all there is?" and upon reflection realized that the work you are currently doing may not be what you want to do long term? 

For nearly a year I've wrestled with that question and pondered the alternatives. I have come to the ultimate conclusion that I need to make a fundamental change in my life. No longer willing to work 24/7 in this business, I've decided to take a sabbatical from assisting buyers and sellers while I pursue new and different challenges and opportunities. I will not be giving up the benefits of my real estate license, but will operate on a referral basis through Professional Referrals, Inc. - referring to top agents locally and across the country. Follow your bliss!

I truly believe that sometimes you have to take some time to immerse yourself in another environment in order to see your life from a different perspective. To listen to what your heart and soul are telling you and to be inspired to embrace the next stage of your personal journey. 

So it is with excitement and optimism that I make this announcement. I've never been someone who does things half way. I immersed myself fully into my career as a real estate agent and was (happily) very successful. I gave it every ounce of my time, energy, resources and effort. I have no regrets. I consider myself extremely fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with the best of the best, my colleagues at RE/MAX Unlimited Northwest, and all of my wonderful real estate friends and clients over the years. That being said, I feel that it is only right to give 100% to my future endeavors as well. 

Working in this business has been both a pleasure and privilege for me and I hope to continue to share insights based on my professional experience and/or to put you in touch with other resources to help guide you in your journey. I'll still be here blogging away - writing, training, consulting and sharing my take on the local real estate market as well as tidbits about my favorite people, places and things to do in Lake Zurich and the surrounding communities - simply from a slightly different perspective. I hope you'll stay tuned.

41 commentsKelly Sibilsky • November 18 2008 12:27PM

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Kelly, you're the best and I always appreciate very much your insight into EVERYTHING. You are a very honest person. Good luck with whatever direction and new path you have decided on.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTORĀ® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Sometimes a new direction is needed to gain perspective. Good luck with that.

Posted by Thomas Martin-BROKER, PROPERTY MANAGER Property Manager in Sacramento, Folsom (Investors Choice Property Management) about 1 year ago

Kelly, good luck and I hope that success finds you in whatever you choose to do!

Posted by Tony Cannon, e-PRO & Darcy Cannon, SFR - The C Team (ERA Realty Center) about 1 year ago

Really?  Wow - I didn't see that one coming at all!  I wish you nothing but the best in whatever you decide to pursue Kelly, since I'm sure that you'll be a star no matter what.

Posted by Lisa Heindel, New Orleans West Bank Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty Crescent City West Bank Partners) about 1 year ago

GARY: Thank you & stay tuned, I'll still be around!

THOMAS: I agree. Thanks!

TONY & DARCY: Thank you.

LISA: Thanks, Lisa...don't I look relaxed already?

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly - Congratulations on your move!  I wish you great success!  :)

Posted by Debi Ernst GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate (St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors) about 1 year ago

Best of luck to you, Kelly.  I have enjoyed reading your blog, so please do keep on writing. 

Posted by Brenda Carus (Towne Square Realty) about 1 year ago

Kelly you had me worried for a minute - I JUST subscribed to your blog and like it very much!!!  I will say a prayer for you in your new career but, selfishly, I am glad you will still be here!

Posted by Tami Vroma-Realtor Grand Rapids Rapids Homes for Sale (West Michigan Real Estate Specialist-Five Star Real Estate) about 1 year ago

DEBI: Thank you! Sometimes change is the best thing!

BRENDA: I will - please keep reading!

TAMI: No worries, I'll be around. And thanks for the kind wishes!

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly -

Best of luck in the future.

It saddens me that this is the 2nd blog post I've read today in which a young eager professional Realtor is leaving the business (at least temporarily).

Posted by Fred Pickard Innovations Realty Inc about 1 year ago

INNOVATIONS: It shouldn't sadden you...I'm transitioning from a very successful venture towards an even more successful venture. This is GOOD news! :)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly - I am both happy for you and sad that it had to come to this. But, many Realtors are approaching that crossroad. I totally understand. I believe you will be successful at anything you do! And, remember the sabbatical you need to take is due to the market and not you. Good luck, and don't become a stranger! ....BTW, nice pic!    

Posted by Carol Culkin (Houlihan Lawrence Realty) about 1 year ago

CAROL: I've had a successful year. This decision is not made because I have to, but rather, because I want to. I'm ready for new challenges. So it's a very good thing! And I'll still be around, you can bet on that!

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly - i know that feeling. I had a great year too. I even beat last years numbers. But, it's become a different business over the last year and it's very draining. The tought of going back to a 9-5 job with weekends off is very tempting to me right now! If only there was a job market!  

Posted by Carol Culkin (Houlihan Lawrence Realty) about 1 year ago

Hi Kelly, 

After having breakfast with you this morning, I was very happy for you and very jealous of course that you were going to start a new chapter  in your live and do something that was more fulfilling.  This is an awfully draining business, and it can get to ANYONE after sellers are constantly  yelling  and the buyers are not always telling  the truths.  I'm sad for me since you Kelly are my role model for the perfect realtor.  Remember I told you the story that I was very impressed with the realtor of a home in Lincolnshire... they had the best brochures, signage, etc and then lo and behold when   I met you, I realized that you were their realtor.  

I will miss sharing stories with you, and discussing what to do in certain situations.  Kelly, I am so honored to be your friend and for those of you who only know Kelly by reading her blogs, she is everything she writes about BUT EVEN BETTER!    She is truly both a great person and great realtor. 

P.s. I hope kelly  you will be back....  You are AWESOME!

Posted by Judy Greenberg- Coldwell Banker- Buffalo Grove- Long Grove (Coldwell Banker Buffalo Grove- 350 Half Day Road ) about 1 year ago

Yes Kelly you do look more relaxed - love the new picture.  I hope you will still be around because I really enjoy reading your blogs.  Your insight and reflections on life are always inspiring.  Please keep us informed on your path and I pray for your success in your new adventure.  

By the Way - RE is "My New Adventure" - I was in RE class on my 50th Birthday and the past 6 years have been a real Roller Coaster and Learning Experience - and I Love It!

My Very Best Wishes for your continued SUCCESS!!!

Posted by Kathy Carson Lynchburg, VA, REALTOR VA HOMES - LYNCHBURG, BEDFORD, CAMPBELL (RE/MAX 1st Olympic, ABR, GRI) about 1 year ago

CAROL: Yes, it is draining, particulary when you are an agent that truly cares about your clients. The allure of nights and weekends off, taking a vacation without files, laptop and cell phone, nights without tossing and turning as I wrack my brain trying to come up with new and different ways to get my clients homes sold, going to a movie without leaving in the middle because you're in negotiations...they say this business is flexible, but really you, the agent, have to be the flexible one and work when your clients need you...not to mention a steady paycheck, yes, it all sounds pretty good right about now! :)

JUDY: Now you've made me tear up. You are so sweet and that was such a nice thing to write. We will still get together, but may have to have lunch or drinks instead...that doesn't sound so bad, now does it?

KATHY: Thank you - and I wish you much success as well! I love real estate, and plan to keep my toes in the water, just in a slightly different way.

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly, I am so shocked to read this post.  Best of luck in your new endeavors and please do stay around here on activerain...it would not be the same without you!  If you ever need anything, I am happy to help.

Posted by Debra Kukulski-CDPE;GRI;ABR;RECS;e-PRO Real Estate Expert Northern Illinois (Re/Max Unlimited Northwest) about 1 year ago

DEBRA: The 24/7 nature of real estate isn't for everyone. I love the real estate biz, but am already feeling more relaxed...and of course I'll be around. I just wrote my next post! :)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

I am surprised to say the least! Another local RE/MAX agent leaves for different pastures. Well good luck with your future direction, I wish you the very best. I am here for any divorcing clients you have, I am a Certified Real Estate Divorce Specialist and about to get my CDFP designation too.

Posted by Corinne Guest Barrington IL Real Estate - Broker - Buyers Agent - Luxury Homes (Royal Advocate Realty-Realtor-REO-Short Sales ) about 1 year ago

JONATHAN & CORINNE: I love RE/MAX! It has been a fabulous place to hang my hat. I've helped several divorcing clients...that's always difficult.

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

I wish you the best of luck in your new adventures!  I hope everything works out well for you.

 

Kim, RE/MAX EXCEL

Posted by RE/MAX EXCEL about 1 year ago

KIM: Thank you very much! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. ;)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Hi Kelly.  Congrats on your decision and good luck with whatever you are doing.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Naperville) about 1 year ago

Change takes courage....good for you!  I hope you find this next chapter to be filled with hope, happiness and most of all satisfaction!

Posted by Joddie Roberts - Your Spokane Realtor - Spokane, WA (Coldwell Banker Tomlinson) about 1 year ago

KEN: Thanks!

JODDIE: It was a little nerve-wracking making the decision, but so far...very worth it!

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Hi Kelly...Well, now I have read the post.  I still do not know what you are up to but I'm sure you'll have a great time with it.  Please share with us someday.  I'm nosy!

Real estate was something I thought of off and on for many years and finally got my license when I was 49.  It has not been that overwhelming because I have tried to pace myself as much as possible.  I've limited listings and buyers so that I could work hard for them yet not work too hard overall.  Once in a whle I have to juggle a little more than at other times and yet it still remains fun for me after 21 years.

Best of luck and please, please continue to share your writings and comments with all of us.  (Your photo only with me!)

Kate

Posted by Kathleen "Kate" Elim LAKE ANNA, VA Real Estate (RE/MAX Edge) about 1 year ago

KATE: It sounds like you've achieved the perfect balance. How wonderful! I'm ready to begin the next chapter in my life. ;)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly...We are fortunate when we have choices.

Now about that photo of yours.......................

Kate

Posted by Kathleen "Kate" Elim LAKE ANNA, VA Real Estate (RE/MAX Edge) about 1 year ago

KATE: That photo was taken by my husband on our 20th anniversary trip. We were both so relaxed and happy at that moment...and that's what I want my life to be. So I changed my picture to remind me to follow my happiness every day. No more "real estate agent" photo for me! And you can't have it!!! ;)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly...No wonder you look so happy!  Guess I'll just have to find someone else to browbeat for a photo.

I'm so happy you are happy.  Truly!

Kate

Posted by Kathleen "Kate" Elim LAKE ANNA, VA Real Estate (RE/MAX Edge) about 1 year ago

Kelly??? I am so sorry to have missed your post. I have been limiting my time on activerain because it was just too much. I wish you nothing but success in your business. Do you have to go into a office everyday? Did you sell your business, past clients, current clients, etc....

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) about 1 year ago

Share your ideas, we all need a change!  I am tired of  waiting, I think I might do something else after Christmas. Waiting on my prayers and God to lead me.  Thanks for a great blog!

Posted by Kathy Honeycutt Realtor/ Neighborhood Specialist (Red Door Realty) about 1 year ago

KATE: Thanks!!!

MISSY: It's really a combination of things. Current clients needed to be referred to great agents who would take excellent care of them, some future clients as well, some stuff was sold, some I'm retaining...I'm going to concentrate on referring and keep my toe in the water while I embark on an entirely new adventure...which is yet to be decided upon. The world is full of opportunity!

KATHY: I've been thinking about this change for a year, so I wish you the best of luck in your decision. One of my clients told me this: "never chase a paycheck, always take the road to happiness, and follow your bliss." I like that. :)

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly, on my break from the rain I missed this entirely. You're right on in chasing your bliss. Who knows...you may decide that road's not for you. But if you never head down it, you'll never know will you? Best of luck!

Posted by Colleen & Co-Moving South King County! Colleen Fischesser, Owner 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate) about 1 year ago

COLLEEN: You never know until you try...but I'm confident this is the right decision for me. Thanks for the kind wishes!

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Kelly~ Wow !  I just read your post.  I can understand what you mean though about being able to slow down and enjoy life a little bit more!  Doesn't Re/max have a place for referral only agents?  Or is it your license still with them now?   Vickie McCartney

Posted by Owensboro KY Real Estate Specialist Vickie McCartney, Broker, ABR (Maverick Realty) about 1 year ago

VICKIE: My license is with Professional Referrals Inc., although my old RE/MAX office is somehow affiliated with this company...

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Wow Kelly!  I am amazed.  Good for you!  KM

Posted by Kristin Moran, San Antonio,TX~Real Estate 210-313-7397 (Owner - RE/MAX Access - KristinMoran@Remax.net) about 1 year ago

KRISTIN: A very good friend of mine lives in San Antonio. I hope to visit one day and head over to the Pottery Barn outlet she always talks about...  :)

Thanks for the well-wishes, btw!

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 1 year ago

Hey, Kelly -

Congrats on the change - always listen when a fellow Chicago Veteran Realtor does something like this.

Wish you well - keep us all posted.  Let me know if there is anything you ever need.

Might try to contact you live later on - OK?

DEAN & DEAN'S TEAM CHICAGO

Posted by Dean Moss - Dean's Team Chicago IL Real Estate Team (Dean's Team - Keller Williams Lincoln Square Chicago IL) about 1 year ago

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