Most of you already know that I am no longer a REALTOR®. Since my real estate license is in a holding company (Professional Referrals, Inc.), I am legally unable to practice real estate, even if I wanted to.
I must say, I am happier than I have been in a long, long time. I knew more than a year ago that I wanted to leave the real estate business but kept at it throughout 2008 anyway. Once the final decision was made and I was able to untangle myself from my client obligations and refer out all of my business, it was a like a weight that was lifted off my shoulders. I could breathe again.
I had a light bulb moment this weekend. We were with a group of friends, one of which is a dentist. He was talking about how business is down because of the economy, and everyone was sharing their experiences with their dentist (none of which were very positive, I must say). Before long I could see that he was starting to get somewhat defensive about his profession, and frustrated with the fact that nobody likes having to go to the dentist and is so verbal about it. That's when the light bulb went off for me.
When I was a REALTOR®, I often felt like that. Although my own clients appreciated me and were very happy with my services, the general public seems to have an overall distain for real estate agents. There were many times when I felt defensive or frustrated as people either complained about their REALTOR® or the fees they were charged, or about how they felt a real estate agent is unnecessary to the transaction. Real estate agents are often made the butt of jokes or slammed on message boards. They are attacked for what they do, how much they make, called swindlers and listed as one of the least-trusted professions in polls.
I always hated that. Worst than that, though, was the knowledge that there are many agents out there who are overpaid for what they do, that don't put their client's needs first, that are disciplined by the Board for unethical behavior and still making tons of money off their unsuspecting clients...agents who are completely deserving of being called a swindler and untrustworthy.
The experience of working in real estate allowed me to grow in many ways professionally and also allowed me to see both sides of an industry that is currently in flux. The real estate profession is changing daily and will continue to change as challenges are made to the commission structure and technological advances alter the nature of the job REALTORS® perform. There are many agents that I deeply respect and admire. For their sake, and for the sake of the public, I hope these changes result in higher industry standards and that unethical agents are given more than a slap on the wrist for their misdeeds. I hope that the outcome will be a deeper understanding and respect for the real estate profession. Most of all, I hope that in the future real estate agents are listed as one of the most-trusted professions in polls, and that real estate agents will no longer feel frustrated or defensive about their profession.
As for myself, I am happy that I am no longer a REALTOR® for many reasons, but I'd really like to be able to someday cross off lack of respect for the profession as one of those reasons.
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If you are looking for a good real estate agent, give me a call. As a referral agent (I'm no longer involved in the day to day real estate business), I can help match you with the perfect agent to help you buy or sell your home.



In today's economic climate, I think many homeowners would say that their homes own them. The inability to sell their home is like a noose around their neck. They feel trapped and unable to move on. They are anchored to a particular home and community which may no longer fit their needs or budget.
rather to give you a chance to prove how much you really want something.